….and today, my life changed….

*Note*This post has been saved as a draft for well over a year….” It’s been so long. No real reason for my hiatus, other than the fact that I really didn’t feel like blogging. I also didn’t really have the time to. I’m a full-time Mom, I have a full-time job and a full-time relationship….you see where this is heading. I’m always busy doing SOMETHING. Anyway, I hope you all are doing well. We’re a few weeks into the new year. I made a very drastic decision in regards to work, and that was to simply quit. My job was … Continue reading ….and today, my life changed….


I’m in a mood. Not a bad mood…or even a good mood. Just a mood. Maybe I’m just emotional. I have so much on my mind, but I don’t really care to discuss it all. Have you ever just felt like, no matter what you said to explain your feelings, it just wouldn’t make sense. A couple of days ago, I was nearly in a devastating car accident. I was in my vehicle with my daughter, and we almost lost our lives. My car spinned out of control, multiple times into oncoming traffic. By the grace of God, we didn’t … Continue reading Untitled

You learn something new EVERYDAY….

Hey everyone! I thought I’d take a moment to post about something that I’m dealing with. As mentioned in a previous post….I was diagnosed with Sarcoidosis in February of 2015, and it’s been wreaking havoc on my body. I also went Natural around the same time….lets fast forward a little bit. My hair, in the beginning of my journey was beautiful once my curls completely formed. They were thick and healthy. My hair was shiny and very easy to manage. You see that?! Amazing, right? Well, recently, I noticed that my hair began to change for the worst. I couldn’t/can’t … Continue reading You learn something new EVERYDAY….

Trying to figure it all out….

It’s been awhile. I honestly just got bored with blogging. I had plenty of time to do so, I just didn’t want to. Sure there were things I could write about, again, I just didn’t want to. I have however, decided that in order for me to be “successful” at this whole thing, I can’t be structured. No challenges. No set theme or topic. No schedule. When it hits me, I’ll write. If I’m feeling it, I’ll write. Be it about my current relationship, a past relationship, my children, fashion or just a random topic. I have to just let … Continue reading Trying to figure it all out….

*Bonus Blog* Blue Suede Shoes…

This post is totally random and unplanned. I thought I’d tell you all about this dirty, little secret I have. It’s rough y’all. It keeps me up at night….I have a serious addiction. Heels. OMG! I’m completely in love with shoes. The last time I counted, I was close to 100 pairs. Different colors, an assortment of heights. It really doesn’t matter…I’m in love with them all. It’s so bad, that there’s a particular store in the mall that causes my blood pressure to rise, my palms sweat and my heart races. No, seriously. I’ve had store clerks ask me … Continue reading *Bonus Blog* Blue Suede Shoes…

July Flame….

Our phone conversations occurred daily…our written correspondence was non stop. One day, during one of our phone calls, he asked me “What are you doing on July 20th?” “Uhhhh, that’s almost 2 months away….how the hell do I know?” I laughed, but he was silent….(these calls are timed….ain’t nobody got time for silence) “HELLO?!?!” I said. He said “Well, I hope you’re not too busy that day….I’m coming home.” At that moment, I felt my heart rate speed up and this overwhelming joy took over. “WHAT?! ARE YOU SERIOUS??!!” He was very serious. He was granted parole, and he was … Continue reading July Flame….

My Baby Just Cares For Me….

I’m in bed, just relaxing. The TV is on, but the volume is very low….almost at a whisper. I’m not paying attention to it anyway, it doesn’t matter. I’m listening to, and watching the love of my life…sleep. Not in a creepy kinda way, but in a….I really love her, kinda way. I love the sounds she makes while she sleeps. Low moans. Her facial expressions change often. Even with her eyes closed, completely unaware, she’s full of character. Sometimes her eyebrows are ‘scrunched’, like she’s confused….if she were awake, I’d be saying “fix your face!!” Lol Just as quickly, … Continue reading My Baby Just Cares For Me….

Let’s Talk About Sex…..

So, I took a break, so that I could regroup and get refreshed. Binge blogging takes a toll….especially when you’re recalling very emotional, sometimes painful events from your life. I stepped away, focused on my happy, and now I’m back. I’ve decided to pace myself a little….slow and steady wins the race, right? Instead of diving back into the dysfunctional life I was blogging about, I’ve decided to write about something that excites me….really excites me….SEX. YEP….THAT. I should start by saying….I am in the most beautifully, gratifying relationship. My girlfriend is beyond amazing. Our relationship is relatively new, but … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Sex…..


I need to take a break. Just a minor break. My current life has me so engulfed in love and happiness…. Writing about these situations drain me a little. Emotionally. Mentally. So, I’m taking a break. I’ll be back with my next post very soon. Very soon. Thank you all for your support thus far. There’s definitely more to come. Xoxoxo, Me 💋 Continue reading *Pause*

Where Do We Go From Here?

So we wrote. We talked. We wrote some more. He filled in the blanks of his life away from me all of those years. He had done so much….seen so many things…..met so many people. He had changed. He was grown. Then there was me. A divorced, single mother of 1. Just living. Working. Supporting my daughter and trying to figure myself out. I hadn’t really been anywhere…done much of anything, but somehow he was intrigued by me. He listened intently. He was smart; still. Not like I expected him to ‘turn stupid’, but he was just so well spoken; … Continue reading Where Do We Go From Here?